too early to congratulate?

ok.. chewy just called back from Shanghai yesterday night. The engagement was called off.. Not cuz they broke up or smth.. but it's cuz Justin, my future/ (soon-to-be) bro-in-law's not of age as yet. as in.. he is turning 21 this yr, but not yet 21.. and yes.. it's so weird.. cuz chewy's own triplets sisters (basically, the 3 of us) are like dunnoe how many months older than him lor! we've aldy turned 21 in Jan. but he (justin) have not even turned 21. and due to tt reason, they cannot engage as yet. i was pretty shocked. cuz my sisters and i thought he was like 2-3 yrs younger than chewy.. BUT! we didnt know that he is our age! and tt means he is 5 yrs younger than chewy! and he's TURNING 21 this year. i noe tt age is not a prob. as long as they get along well and love ech other, that's fine. but, it just feel weird la.. if u get wad i mean.. as much as i would love to have a bro-in-law soon, but, oh well.. it's all up to chewy's decision. it's her life. and it's her choice.. haha... thank god we did not mention abt the engagement to many.. anyway, whatever it is, i'll still give them my blessing.. =)